Double Standards

This week's episode topic was sparked by a tweet I saw this week that really bothered me.  A new husband noticed that people kept coming up to his new bride giving her advice for "keeping" her man.  Y'all know how we do.

You need to cook for him... 
you need to make sure you don't wear a bonnet to bed... 
You better do EVERYTHING he like in bed or someone else will...

Why are we not speaking to the husbands?  Why aren't we teaching our young black men how to raise women up, properly date them, and eventually how to be good husbands?  Where are the classes on that?

I see so many groups of single women discussing how to be great wives or get ready for your Boaz.

Even on TV, dudes cheat on girls on TV all the time.  The girl ALWAYS takes them back.  Hell, Tasha took Ghost back.  The other Tasha took Lawrence F*ckboy ass back.  Yet we are supposed to understand this dude Lawrence's ego is bruised so Issa has to shuck and jive to get him to come back to her!  Black women be taking dudes back after they go and have a whole family on the side and I am sick of the double standards. 

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